Past Life Regression and Child abuse

Few of us get out of childhood without some trauma, no matter how loving our caretakers were. It may have been an accident, an animal attack, or witnessing a trauma like war or abuse. It could, as we know, be a trusted adult who acts incredibly selfish and irresponsibly towards a vulnerable child.

When a trauma occurs the young child makes a decision that, at the time may be a useful survival strategy, and later becomes a part of his or her unconscious operating system. The trauma event is long over but the early decision still operates in the adult's life creating difficulty.

All childhood abuse leaves emotional scars in the mind and these play out through ones life in a multitude of ways. Low confidence, aggression, relationship troubles, sexual problems, self-sabotage, guilt, anxiety, depression… all are common symptoms one may experience as a result of abuse as a child.

When the child experiences the abuse, it is like an “emotion overload”, and when the subconscious mind just cannot cope at that moment, it uses a process called “repression” to protect the child from being emotionally overwhelmed. The downside of this process is that emotions become “trapped” back there, and cause problems and symptoms in ones present day life.

Memories of abuse as a child are often repressed through the very mechanism, which enables the child to survive the horror - dissociation. He or she gets through the betrayal, the physical assault, the pain and the helplessness by mentally separating from the body. It seems as though the abuse is happening to someone else.

Sometimes this dissociation can be so effective that all conscious memory of the abuse is lost. Sometimes memories surface later, in adulthood. Often as flashbacks or nightmares.

All childhood abuse leaves deep scars, affecting your beliefs about yourself for the rest of your life. And even though the abuse may have happened a long time ago, it may still be affecting your life today. Many abuse victims admit to having low confidence, exhibiting higher than normal levels of aggression, having relationship difficulties, experiencing sexual problems, indulging in self-sabotage or even self-harm, harboring guilty feelings, and feeling generally anxious.

Individuals are imprisoned on the ‘evidence’ provided by memories that come back in dreams and flashbacks. What type of impact can repressed memories have on someone's overall life? 

"Unconscious behavior and unexpressed emotion from repressed memories can create uncomfortable patterns in ones life. These patterns tend to keep reappearing and create difficulties, like addictions and their consequences. It may also show up as a strong reaction to a situation, a sudden eruption of anger, or obsessive thinking. As in the case of young children who have been subjected to sexual abuse will exhibit symptoms of increased autonomic arousal in their later life which can be recognized when they:

·         experiences sleep disturbances which can magnify symptoms and can encourage psychoactive substance abuse

·         becomes irritable or prone to explosive outbursts of fear, panic or anger particularly when the original trauma is recollected or re-enacted

·         experiences difficulty in concentrating or remembering

·         is continually hyper vigilant and employs survivalist tactics or victimization mechanisms of relevance to the original trauma

·         exhibits an exaggerated startle response and increased hypersensitivity.

Past Life Regression Therapy addresses these problems by going to the root cause which either occurred in a previous life or in an earlier part of this life memory of which has since been repressed.

Past Life Regresssion through the ages

The belief of Reincarnation and Past Life has existed for centuries in various civilizations and faiths .Oral traditions and written legends around the world make it evident that reincarnation has been an integral part of human worldviews from the early days of civilization. 

Carl Gustav Jung (1875 – 1961) wrote ‘My life often seemed to me like a story that has no beginning and no end.  I had the feeling that I was a historical fragment, an excerpt for which the preceding and succeeding text was missing.  I could well imagine that I might have lived in former centuries and there encountered questions I was not yet able to answer; that I had been born again because I had not fulfilled the task given to me.’

In Tibetan Buddhism’s Bardo Thodol or Book of the Dead which was said to have been  written  by Padma-Sambhava, an Indian mystic who introduced Buddhism to Tibet in the 8th century, it is stated that a soul passes through many nonphysical worlds before reincarnation on earth.

The main difference between Hinduism and Buddhism is that Buddhism feels there is no permanent soul, just a pulsating subconscious that goes from life to life learning lessons until enlightenment is reached. In Buddhism, there exist three fires of craving, ill will, and ignorance which cause rebirth. To achieve nirvana these fires must be extinguished. Hinduism on the other hand believes in a permanent soul.

Spain was a great center of philosophy, and Solomon ibn Gabirol  שלמה בן יהודה אבן גבירול or Avicebron(1021 – 1058), a Spanish Jew, brought Plato's teachings (who believed in a soul) to the European thought.

 In Egypt, transmigration was the accepted mechanism of reincarnation. After a person died, he or she would reincarnate as an animal for as long as 3000 years until purified. Only then, would he or she return to the human form. The Books of Hermes states "From one soul of the Universe are all souls derived. The soul passes from form to form".

Elsewhere, in ancient Greece, Orpheus (Ὀρφεύς) the founder of Greek theology was used by both  Pythagoras and Plato as a source for their own philosophies. Pythagoras (582-507BC) stated and recalled many memories of his soul's incarnations (in Troy etc.). Plato (427-347 BC) stated every soul is immortal. In every succession of life & death you will do and suffer what like fitly may suffer at the hands of like.

The Roman poet Ennius introduced Karma to the Romans. In his "Annals", he tells how Homer appeared to him in a dream and told him their two bodies had the same soul. Virgil (70-19 BC) in the Aeneid says, "All souls return again into living bodies".

According to these teachings all human souls have a common origin from Adam Kadmon. Adam's original sin brought higher and lower souls into confusion. As a result every soul passes through a series of incarnations before returning to God. Ancient Jews believed that Moses was the reincarnation of Abel, the Son of Adam. The Messiah was the reincarnation of Adam himself, who had already come a second time as David.

 

Past Life Regression and Bhagavad Gita

Past Life Regression Therapy is based on the principles of cause and effect also known as the law of Reincarnation / Karma. An action that has been set in motion at a specific time in the past resulting in a corresponding effect on a person’s present emotional, physical, mental or spiritual well being, at this moment. This cause may be a past desire, past promise, past talent, past thought, past feeling, past vow, past emotion, past decision, past evasion or past traumatic experience.

As very appropriately quoted in the Gita, the soul of a person is immortal and through the process of Past Life Regression one can tap into these memories of his/her soul’s experience in different lives before the present. As the present is the sum total of the past, the Law of Karma or Reincarnation allows you to re-live and release the issues by awareness and realization with the help of Past Life Regression.

Past live regression therapy also incorporates Age Regression which is a time travel technique that makes one travel backwards in time in the present lifetime to unravel hidden powers and uncover and release blockages created to embrace a fulfilling and beautiful life ahead.

In the Bhagavad Gita 4:5, Lord Krishna told Arjun “Many, many births both you and I have passed. I can remember all of them, but you cannot, O subduer of the enemy!”

This life is a University where we come to learn our lessons & evolve spiritually. Until and unless we evolve spiritually we can neither be happy nor can we transcend the cycle of birth & death.

The soul has lived many lives. This life is one page or one life of the endless life’s our soul has lived. Our real self is ‘Atman’, the supreme consciousness. Only when we know our true self, can we be free from this vicious circle of birth & death.

Each soul, by his own choice, passes through many earthly sojourns and is given a chance to develop spiritually. In the process, mistakes may also be made, and actions may be taken that move us farther away from God; but in each lifetime we are also free to act so as to make up for those errors.

It is through our actions that we create many of our own rewards and punishments. Of course, it is up to us to alter or redirect our lives at any time. It is through various experiences that we grow and develop. All experiences are for our good and sometimes it takes what we would consider a negative experience to help develop our spirits. We chose many of our weaknesses and difficult situations in our lives so that we could grow. We were very willing, even anxious, as spirits to accept all of our ailments, illness, and accidents on earth, to help better ourselves spiritually. Our most sever challenges will one day reveal themselves to be our greatest teachers. Grief is growth. Soul cleansing can come through illness. We should not consider ourselves to be the unfortunate victims of the circumstances we are in. Some of us have come to earth to unite in a cause to change certain things, some to strengthen a course already set and to pave the way for those who may follow. Some come to earth for a short time, living only hours or days after birth.

Each lifetime is another opportunity to move the transmigration of our soul forward through the accumulation of positive Karma. We must strive over onward through many cycles until we achieve sufficient perfection to rejoin God. It is the law, for no imperfect thing will ever have the opportunity to become a part of Godhead.

According to the Bhagavad-Gita, Lord Krishna said man's real self or soul is immortal and independent of the body, it neither kills nor is killed. It is indestructible, imperishable and inaccessible to the sufferings, which afflict the body. Eternal, omnipresent, fixed, immovable, everlasting is the human soul. “He is not slain when the body is slain”. Bhagavad Gita (2:20)

As laying aside worn-out garments, a man takes on other new ones, so laying aside worn out bodies, the embodied (soul) enters into other new ones. Rebirth is under the control of karma or "actions" and salvation is through ultimate release from the round of rebirths. All creatures are composed of two distinct elements, namely soul and body. The body including what are called "psychic" elements, is material; is subject to evolution, devolution and changes of all sorts; and consists of a blend of various elements or qualities. The material body, upon other material bodies or substances performs all action. The soul neither acts nor is affected by action. It has only contemplative powers.

Any action, good or bad, must normally have its effect in continued existence for the doer. According to the Bhagavad Gita, this is due not to the action as such, but due to desire underlying the action.

 

 

Case #6 Migraine and Past Life regression

The word Migraine is derived from the Greek word ἡμικρανία (hemikrania)  which means "pain on one side of the head" - ἡμι- (hemi-) "half" and κρανίον (kranion) "skull".

Medical professionals are still baffled by what causes migraines in the first place often attributing it to stress or even genetics. With tests and MRI scans usually coming back negative and medication only providing moderate relief, conventional treatments rely on lifestyle changes and pills yet many patients still struggle with the symptoms. 

For many years it was thought that these headaches were the result of a dilation of the blood vessels, caused by stress and tension. Present-day research now tends to favor alternative explanations. In some cases the emotional circumstances of the patient's life, past and present can influence the situation. Old memories or unresolved trauma can surface. Migraine headaches that stem from a past lifetime will cease to exist once the trauma is identified and resolved or removed through past life regression therapy.

Sushma* came to me with a case of extreme migraine which she had been suffering for the past 20 years.

On undergoing past life regression, she found herself in the year 1656 as a soldier on board a Spanish ship engaged in battle with the English. During the course of the battle he gets hit on the head and subsequently succumbs to his injuries and dies.

* Name changed to protect patient confidentiality

Case #5 - PLR and Pteromerhanophobia

Pteromerhanophobia  or fear of flying may be a distinct phobia in itself, or it may be an indirect combination of one or more other phobias related to flying, such as claustrophobia (a fear of enclosed spaces) oracrophobia (a fear of heights). It may have other causes as well, such as agoraphobia (especially the type that has to do with fear of open spaces). It is a symptom rather than a disease, and different causes may bring it about in different individuals.


The fear receives more attention than most other phobias because air travel is often difficult for people to avoid.  A fear of flying may prevent a person from going on vacations or visiting family and friends, and it can cripple the career of a businessperson by preventing them from traveling on work-related business.


The fear of flying may be created by various other phobias and fears: 
* fear of crashing which most likely result in death.
* a fear of closed in spaces (claustrophobia), such as that of an aircraft cabin
* a fear of heights (acrophobia)
* a feeling of not being in control
* fear of vomiting, motion sickness can make the person vomit, thus making flying hard.
* fear of having panic attacks in certain places, where escape would be difficult and/or embarrassing (agoraphobia)
* fear of hijacking or terrorism
* fear of turbulence
* fear of flying over water or night flying


A previous traumatizing experience with air travel or somehow connected to flying can also trigger a fear of flying. 


Rahul* a 13 year old young man was brought to me by his parents due to his fear of travelling in an aircraft. As the family was bases in U.S. and travelled to India at least once a year to look up  the aging elders, this travel initially was done by sedating Rahul, but as he started growing up was becoming a difficult proposition.


On being regressed, Rahul found himself in Europe in the year 1934 as a successful businessman, who used to travel a lot all  over Europe. During the course of one of these travels, he had to take a flight from London to Paris for concluding a business deal. However, the flight never reached Paris and crashed into the sea taking him and the other passengers down with it.


His parents subsequently a couple of months later called me to tell that Rahul now seemed to have got over his fear and could now travel by air without any problem.


*  Name changed to protect patient’s identity. 

Addiction and Past Life Regression Therapy ...cont.

Addiction is a compulsion that makes an individual yield to addictive causes unmindful of the hazardous consequences. There are no specific causes of any addiction aside from use of a substance or activity, and there is also no way to predict who will become dependent on use.  Any substance or activity that has the capacity to be pleasurable can provide the conditions for addiction, as all addictions impact various neural circuits of the brain, including those related to reward, motivation, and memory.

Our addiction theories and policies are woefully outdated. Research shows that there are no demon drugs. Nor are addicts innately defective. Nature has supplied us all with the ability to become hooked—and we all engage in addictive behaviors to some degree.

Millions of people are "hooked," not only on heroin, morphine, amphetamines, tranquilizers, and cocaine, but also nicotine, caffeine, sugar, steroids, work, theft, gambling, exercise, and even love and sex, despite every kind of addiction treatment from psychosurgery, psychoanalysis, psychedelics, and self-help to acupuncture, group confrontation, family therapy, hypnosis, meditation, education and tough love.

Scientists have learned that every animal, from the ancient hagfish to reptiles, rodents, and humans, share the same basic pleasure and "reward" circuits in the brain, circuits that all turn on when in contact with addictive substances or during pleasurable acts such as eating or orgasm One conclusion from this evidence is that addictive behaviors are normal, a natural part of our "wiring." If they weren't, or if they were rare, nature would not have let the capacity to be addicted evolve, survive, and stick around in every living creature.

Our brains didn't develop opiate receptors to tempt us with heroin addiction. The coca plant didn't develop cocaine to produce what we call crack addicts. This plant doesn't care two hoots about our brain. But heroin and cocaine addiction certainly tell us a great deal about how brains work. And how they work is that if you taste or experience something that you like, that feels good, you're reinforced to do that again. Basic drives, for food, sex, and pleasure, activate reward centers in the brain. They're part of human nature.

One of the methods of curing a person from addiction is Past Life Regression Therapy, leading to the question as to what transpires during Past Life Regression Therapy ? And how does this help.

When the person is taken into one of his/her past lives by the therapist, the subconscious mind begins to pour out the deepest emotions, wounds and sorrow of that particular life. This pour out in itself is considered a big step in rehabilitation because grief shared is grief halved. It is found by research that more than 10 percent of the addictions are because of moments of sorrow in the child hood whose causes could be very trivial. Once those trivial causes are treated through Past Life Regression Therapy, the addict can easily do away with addiction. Reliving events of the past can also give the subconscious mind a better picture of the sequence of events. Any misconceptions could also be cleared because of this pour out.

 

 

 

Addiction and Past Life Regression Therapy

Addiction is the state of being abnormally craved to or being dependent on something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming. It means badly yearning for something and be prepared to go any extents for doing or having a particular thing. The term addiction encompasses those activities or behavioral habits that are hard to resist or do away with. Doctors roughly classify addiction into two kinds – object addictions and event addictions. Object addictions are those which deal with addiction on any particular external object or substance, like narcotics, fancy costumes, chocolates, women, alcohol etc.  Event addictions are those that involve addiction on performing a particular activity like gaming, watching television, shopping, gambling etc. In certain cases, object or physical additions lead to event addictions. For example, if a person addicted to a particular item or person and doesn’t get to enjoy it, he could switch to drinking or taking drugs and get addicted to it.

Deep-lying wounds that dwell in the mind due to horrific events in the past are one of the major reasons for being addicted to drugs and alcohol. The addicted person obtains a feeling of solace as the mind forgets all the worries and sad moments of the past. This forgotten feeling is temporary as the hypothalamus region of the brain becomes anesthetized by use of drugs or prolonged use of alcohol. Once the effect of the drug or alcohol wears off, the sadness begins to haunt the victim until the next doze. This forms a vicious cycle and engulfs the person into addiction.

Rarely is smoking addiction only about smoking. To simply say “just stop smoking,” won’t solve the unconscious reasons of this addiction, and superficial attempts at quitting may result in transference to another vice. If panic, anxiety, and confusion are present at the time of death, the same feelings are continued in the next incarnation. This may include the unconscious attraction to an overly anxious mother or father and life experiences that encourage ailments, drugs, and unease, until confusion isn’t necessary to feel alive.

There are a multitude of reasons that individuals smoke, ranging from self-medicating for anxiety to serving as a pseudo-friend that keeps them company when they’re feeling alone. Smoking or other drug usage is usually an attempt at managing as opposed to dealing with unresolved pain and/or anger. Instead of pain or anger management, one must feel the discomfort in their body and direct it to its source in past life therapy.

The Past Life Regression Therapist assists in taking the person to one of their past lives, where perhaps lies the problems or worries that led to the addiction. Once the source is identified, the therapist will try to eradicate the link between the problem of that life and the addictive feeling in this life for rehabilitation.

The deep unconscious mind has a crucial influence on the person’s behavior and when properly directed, can work wonders in getting the person out of addiction.

 

Case No.4 - PLR and Topophobia

Phobia , derived from the Greek word  φόβος - Phóbos, meaning  fear  is a type of anxiety disorder, usually defined as a persistent fear of an object or situation in which the sufferer goes to great lengths in avoiding.  In the event the phobia cannot be avoided entirely the sufferer will endure the situation or object with marked distress.

It is generally accepted that phobias arise from a combination of external traumatic events  and internal predispositions. Many specific phobias can be traced back to a specific triggering event, usually a traumatic experience at an early age. It is believed that the brain chemistry combined with life-experiences is one of the factors playing a major role in the development of phobias.

Among the various types of phobias, is Topophobia, which represents the fear of certain places or situations. The origin of the word topo is Greek- meaning place.

Sheila* a young mother, came to me with an affliction towards Taj Mahal. Though she had so far never visited the place, the mere thought of it used to cause her immense discomfort, and she was interested in knowing the reason for this.

On being regressed, she found herself as a young man in the year 1632 in Agra, where she was one of the labourers brought in from various surrounding places, Jhansi in her case, for the construction of the Taj Mahal. Through the next fifteen years all she did on a daily basis was carry huge stone in the construction site. That to suffering immense misery and pain throughout the period of her stay. Finally, when she was incapable of doing any meaningful labour, she was sent back where she found the rest of her family since dead. Subsequently she also died a short while later.

*name changed to protect patient confidentiality.

Karma cont....

When people are happy and contented, they tend to take life for granted. It is when they suffer, when they find life difficult, that they begin to search for a reason and a way out of their difficulty. They may ask why some are born in poverty and suffering, while others are born in fortunate circumstances. Some people believe that it is due to fate, chance, or an invisible power beyond their control - Karma. In this world nothing happens to a person that he does not for some reason or other deserve. Usually, men of ordinary intellect cannot comprehend the actual reason or reasons. The definite invisible cause or causes of the visible effect is not necessarily confined to the present life, they may be traced to a proximate or remote past birth.

The Pali term Karma literally means action or doing. Any kind of intentional action whether mental, verbal, or physical, is regarded as Karma. It covers all that is included in the phrase "thought, word and deed". Buddhism teaches that one's present condition, whether of happiness or suffering, is the result of the accumulated force of all past actions or karma.

Karma is the law of moral causation. It is action and reaction in the ethical realm. It is natural law that every action produces a certain effect. So if one performs wholesome actions such as donating money to charitable organizations, happiness will ensue. On the other hand, if one performs unwholesome actions, such as killing a living being, the result will be suffering. This is the law of cause and effect at work. In this way, the effect of past karma determines the nature of one's present situation in life.

It is a concept in Hinduism which explains causality through a system where beneficial effects are derived from past beneficial actions and harmful effects from past harmful actions, creating a system of actions and reactions throughout a soul's reincarnated lives forming a cycle of rebirth. The causality is said to be applicable not only to the material world but also to our thoughts, words, actions and actions that others do under our instructions. When the cycle of rebirth comes to an end, a person is said to have attained moksha, or salvation.

 

The theory of karma harps on the Newtonian principle that every action produces an equal and opposite reaction. Every time we think or do something, we create a cause, which in time will bear its corresponding effects. And this cyclical cause and effect generates the concepts of samsara, birth and reincarnation. It is the personality of a human being - with its positive and negative actions - that causes karma.

According to Buddhism, rebirth takes place at the end of this life. Rebirth is regarded as a fact. There is evidence that each person has lived many lives in the past and will continue to live more in the future. Rebirth therefore for the Buddhist is a reality although one may not be aware of it. Those who have developed their minds through meditation have confirmed the existence of past lives. Meditators who have attained powers of concentration have been able to recall their previous lives in great detail. In the same trend, Buddhism teaches that birth, death and rebirth are part of the continuing process of change. This is similar to the continuous process of growth, decay and replacement of cells in one's body. According to medical experts, every seven years, all body cells are replaced.

At the moment of death, when this life is over, and the body can no longer survive, the mind is separated from the body. At that time, the craving for life causes one to seek a new existence, and the previous karma determines the place of one's rebirth.

Every person is responsible for his or her acts and thoughts, so each person's karma is entirely his or her own. Occidentals see the operation of karma as fatalistic. But that is far from true since it is in the hands of an individual to shape his own future by schooling his present. Hindu philosophy, which believes in the doctrine that if the life after death, holds karma of an individual is good enough, the next birth will be rewarding, and if not, the person may actually devolve and degenerate into a lower life form. Therefore in order to achieve good karma it is important to live life according to dharma or what is right.

We create our own Heaven. We create our own Hell. We are the architects of our own fate.

PLR - Goal and Methodology

The goal of past life regression is to heal blocks from your past lives that are interfering with your present day physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual well being. Just as people carry the pain they suffered earlier in their current life to their later years, people carry unresolved pain with them from one life to another.

In Past life regression, people can recall past life memories regressing into past life experiences, a process that is similar to hypnotism. Learning about a past life can be an amazing process. Is it really possible to have lived before, and for the soul to still carry at least some of those burdens into your current incarnation?

At one point, the subject of past lives and past lives stories were the stuff of a skeptic's dream. However in recent years, this controversial subject has seeped into what Carl Jung termed "the collective unconscious", to the point where even Dr. Brian Weiss, a respected therapist, was featured on Oprah to discuss the topic.

While there are many ways that you can recall past life memories, the number one factor, common to almost all methods, is relaxation. In order to let your mind wander deeper into the past, your body must be as relaxed as possible so that you are not physically or mentally distracted by your present carnation.

The second factor is to not over analyze or stress about what you might possibly experience. Over analysis prevents you from relaxing completely, and it also causes you to judge your past memories. At this point, you are simply observing past events and are unable to change them. It is important to avoid judging past life experiences if you want to learn anything new from them.

The third factor is to open your mind to the possibility that what you are seeing is true. If you begin seeing flashes of memory, but automatically dismiss them, what's the point? In order to make any progress in past life regression, you need to be open to what you see and prepared to take it seriously.

 

Past Life Regression - Cause and Effect

Our mind is divided into two main parts: Conscious and Sub-conscious. The Conscious mind is the reasoning, thinking, logical and creative mind that we use all the time when we are awake. The Sub-conscious mind is a repository of all our experiences and memories of all lifetimes. It is part of the core of the human being, and hence survives after death, taking with it every memory of that lifetime.

 

Upon rebirth, this core reincarnates, bringing with it memories both good and traumatic of all the lifetimes in its repository. These memories ultimately manifest themselves at various levels of our current existence and cause problems which could be either physical, psychological or both combined resulting in among other things, blocks in relationships, business, financial and spiritual growth.

 

Past Life Regression allows us to retrieve these past life memories, and in so doing address the current life problems. Through Past Life Regression, the sub-conscious mind goes back in time and accesses the origins of old patterns or emotions thus enabling release and healing. Past Life Therapy helps in clearing emotional blocks and bringing a greater sense of inner peace. It also assists in unraveling the deep mysteries that can lie within and simply explain the sometimes inexplicable.

 

Past Life Regression Therapy is most effective in cases of:

 

Physical problems where the medical tests do not reveal the cause and no traditional medical procedures work.

Problems that the traditional medical world may consider untreatable.

Behavioral problems, like obsessive-compulsive behavior, which have no diagnosable cause in the current life.

Fears & phobias that have no known origin in the current life.

Relationship problems which are totally unexplainable.

Spiritual likes or dislikes (usually extreme cases).

Weight reduction problems.

Cases of stammering or stuttering. - These cases always involve a trauma in childhood, in the current life, where the child wanted to say something but was so afraid that he could not talk.

Past Life Recall

At birth, you had the gift of two types of memory, current life and past life. You also had the gift of having a veil dropped over the past. That veil can be lifted, should you choose to do so.

 

Perhaps it is easy for children to recall past lives because their minds are not cluttered by confronting the lessons and challenges of their current lives. By the time children reach adulthood, they will have experienced many things that might cloud past-life memories, including admonishment by some adults that those memories are only creative imagination. A wise parent who realizes that a child is recalling past life memories can provide encouragement by asking the child to make up a bedtime story. Your child's reaction can be surprisingly straightforward. Your child might ask, "Do you remember when I was the mommy (or daddy) and you were little like me?" In a playful way, s/he might describe a past-life event as a personal story. By talking with your child just before sleep, you can learn much about the past-life experiences that went into the making of that soul's character--your little child.

 

Parents who punish their child for play-acting what the child believes to be real could damage or stunt the emotional and spiritual life of that child who is simply remembering the past. Such an unwise approach on the part of the parents could cause serious problems to develop later as the child develops and must deal with issues rooted in a past life. The freedom to remember is essential. 

PLR and Karma cont.

There are many bodies that a soul can take after death, and the astral body is one such form. This is also referred to in the Hindu puranas as Sukshma sarira - the link between the nervous system and the cosmic reservoir, which is invisible to human eyes, but  can be sensed by animals. That’s why dogs bark sometimes without any reason 

However, the Bhagavad Gita says that the soul doesn’t carry any karma or doesn’t attach itself to anything. Then how is human karma carried from one life to other?

 During death, the mind merges all the sense into itself, storing all memories of that particular body, and gets itself attached to the soul, thus making it an aspect of the soul, in the sense of being both divine and immortal, linking human thinking with the un-changing ordering principle of the cosmos itself.

 The soul however, doesn’t want this burden with it and it tries to get rid of this karma carrying mind, and so looks for suitable conditions where it can reincarnate itself into a body where that existing karma can be balanced.

 It is these past life memories in the reincarnated body that Past Life Regression helps in unraveling to help solve current day issues.

Case Study 3

A lot of people suffer from a fear of losing someone in a relationship. There have been so many cases, where people do not find a rational as to why they have this fear. Often, even after going through various treatments, and psychologists, they still are not able to get rid of this fear, and this at times leads to a case of extreme possessiveness on their part.

Mrinalini* was one such case who came to me for Past Life Regression and help. She was under the constant fear of losing her children, which when they were younger made her go paranoid if she did not see them inside the house or for a period of time. As the children grew older, they started resenting this attitude of their mother as besides other thing restricted their movement and life.

On being regressed into one of her past lives, she found herself belonging to a very rich family, where her children were kidnapped and despite all efforts could not be traced. It was only with the arrest of one of her husbands competitors and enemy that the crime was solved and the mutilated bodies of her children recovered.

Once confronted with this, she was able to come to terms with the situation in her present life.

*name changed to protect patient confidentiality

Case Study 2

Aditya* a young college boy in his late teens, came to me along with his mother with a complaint of a constant inexplicable pain in his middle back, which despite consumption of a variety of medications both allopathic and homeopathic a series of doctors and physiotherapists over a period of time was  not cured.

During a session of Past Life Regression with me, he found himself in one of his lives, in South Africa in the year 1900 as a Boer soldier fighting against the British. During one of the battles at a place called Elandslaagte, he was shot in the back at the very same spot where he had the pain in this life, and died.

Once identified, subsequent to his PLR sessions, over a period of time, the pain that had been bothering him for such a long time gradually subsided and ultimately vanished.

*name changed to protect patients confidentiality

Case Study 1

Radhika*, an executive with a MNC suffered with a case of extreme claustrophobia. She found it extremely difficult to stay in a closed room, travel in lifts or attend parties where there were a number of people present.

She visited my clinic to see if I could help her rid of her phobia so that she could lead a normal life.

 On being regressed she found herself in a village in Rajasthan. At the age of 20 she fell in love with a boy from the adjoining village who unfortunately was not of the same community, and hence neither did her parents or the village elders approve. Despite this she was adamant to marry the boy and threatened to elope.

 One night, her father and elder brothers caught hold of her and took her out to the fields where they buried her alive.

After this, when Radhika got over her session of Regression Therapy she was able to conquer her phobia and lead a normal life once again

*name changed to protect patients confidentiality

Regression Therapy

Regression therapy is based on the belief that the mind is divided into 3 states of consciousness that affects their physical and mental well being.

Active conscious

Sub conscious

Super conscious

Active conscious state is the state which dictates what one does, fully aware of the implications of one’s actions. The sub conscious mind is what one actually is while the super conscious mind is the soul.

In regression therapy, it is believed that all the three states should be in coherence in order for the person to be well physically as well as mentally. Positive emotions like love are good for the physical being of a person while negative emotions like fear that leads to other negative emotions like guilt, jealousy, anger and hatred are detrimental to one’s physical being.

A person is born with negative and positive emotions, more emotions are imprinted on the child till about 5 years of age.  It is believed that these re-enforcements can lead to physical ailments later in life. Sometimes it may take even up to 10 years. According to the beliefs of regression therapy the following ailments are caused as a result of negative emotions experienced.

Emotion                                               Physical ailment caused

Extreme anger or hatred                         Frequent pain in the head , migraines

Bitterness harboured                              Arthritis, pain in the lower back

Emotions that result from                       Hip, leg or knee problems

a lack of support or excessive

restrictions imposed.

Shame                                                 Psoriasis

Feelings of rejection                              Diabetes

  

Emotional upheavals or stress               Multiple sclerosis

Extreme anger                                     Cancer

The presence of these intense emotions creates a negative feeling that is reflected in one’s physical condition. When these physical emotions are controlled or completely alleviated, then the physical system will be able to recuperate and get back to normal functioning.

In order to set right the emotional aspect of one’s character, it is necessary to understand the root cause for the emotion. Emotions are generally triggered by specific situations. The reaction towards such situations could have been negative, positive or neutral. By choosing the negative way of reacting to a particular situation, the person is exposed to the negative impact that causes the various physical ailments. While attempting to set this right, the situation that acted as the trigger should be re-lived and the best positive outcome should be chosen. The subconscious mind should then be used to re-live all the experiences that would have taken place if the positive outcome was chosen.

Hypnosis is generally used to help the individual re-live his/ her past experiences and replace all the negative reactions with positive ones. This will completely erase all the negative feelings that have led to the physical ailments. A single session of hypnosis under a trained regression therapist has been shown to change as many as 10-12 negative experiences, replacing them with positive ones. Regression therapy, therefore, focuses in creating a positive feeling that leaves one feeling light and extremely happy. This will create a sea change in their physical state and improve their condition.

Past Life Therapy - An overview ...cont.

In Past Life Therapy,  thoughts and emotions, at the center of any particular complex are uncovered and then used to follow backwards through time to find relevant present and past life formative experiences. This happens through a review of different areas of their life such as the history of relationships, upbringing or work. This also serves to identify core themes together before starting regression work.

Guided Imagery is a directive process that allows a past life memory to arise spontaneously, where a scene is set in the imagination intending to lead to a past life. This could be the suggestion of imagining crossing a bridge and coming into a past life scene, or walking down a hallway with many closed doors and choosing one, opening it and walking into a past life scene. There are myriad variations of the initial imagery used to get to the past life.

The mind is not located in the brain but permeates our entire being, including the body. The principle at play is that our current life bodies are recreated from a subtle energy body that is a part of the soul’s memory. ‘Cellular Memory’ is the term often used to describe subconscious body imprints. Thus a chronic neck pain may come from a past life hanging or beheading that has been traumatically imprinted and carried into the current life body.

Past life memories can arise within the dream state, often this imagery is fragmentary, but a particularly charged scene in a dream can be explored for past life content. An example of this could be a dream of being chased by wolves, exploration of this may lead to a literal past life where that happened or it may be a metaphoric image that leads to a different past life memory of being a child in the forest running from invaders.

Present life fears, such as those that seem to not be connected with any current life cause, are often found to have their root in past life traumatic deaths. Such as fear of water or heights for example, is often caused by past life drowning or death by falling. 

Past Life Therapy - An overview

 

Past-life regression therapy rests on the premise that evidence of our past lives is everywhere. Why do you have a sore throat? Because in a past life you were hanged, choked or even strangled. Why do you have a bad knee? Because in a past life you were in a car accident, trod on by a horse, or prayed too much. Do you have a good voice? Yes, because in a past life you were Judy Garland.

 However, this evidence is often buried beneath our consciousness, and we need a PLR therapist to help us get it out. It is much like uncovering traumatic stress in a current life, as those who suffered abuse as a child, for example, might suffer panic attacks as an adult.

PLR has also been given credence by Dr Brian L Weiss MD, a Columbia University trained psychotherapist and graduate of Yale Medical School who was "surprised" when one of his patients began recalling past lives. Another therapist, Dr Michael Newton,  has written extensively on past lives. He uses the term "life-between-lives" therapists, or people who help us mere mortals learn what our souls were doing between past lives.

As per Dr Newton , "This technique offers you an opportunity to experience a trance-induced 'superconscious' state of awareness that brings a deep sense of love, compassion and an understanding of your life purpose. Everyone's experience is unique and personal so you can be confident of a spiritual journey that will fulfill your own needs and wishes. "

People who benefit from PLR say it helps them build stronger relationships, be more creative and feel more satisfied with life overall. Similar to having counseling for post-traumatic stress, they say that PLR can also help some people deal better with panic attacks, insecurity, feelings of shame, worthlessness and guilt, alcoholism, insomnia and other often emotionally-related disorders.

 

 

Past Life Wounds – Present Life Problems

Past life issues that carry into the current life are often thought of as being the result of karma. The Western notion of karma can sometimes be simplistic in this regard, implying that if something bad happens to you it is because you did the same thing to someone else in the past. This idea of karma as a sort of Old Testament ‘eye for an eye’ justice is not the whole picture. Eastern traditions on the other hand, that have reincarnation and karma central to their belief system teach about an aspect of karma called Samskara.  Karma literally means actions, and many of those actions come from the deep impressions of habit that are called samskaras. Samskara then is intrinsically tied into the laws of karma that govern the cycle of rebirth. Keeping in mind the nature of traumatic imprints and how they cause continual recreation of the original traumatic event, one can also look at samskaras as trauma imprints re-manifested from life to life. It is the essence of karma to bring forth the actions of the past to the present. The inability to complete even the simple action of ‘fight or flight’ as a result of trauma in past lives is also carried into the present as the soul continues to create from its own wounded place in an ongoing effort to heal.  Our past life physical, emotional and mental bodies are not wiped clean in-between lives, but continue to recreate themselves in each incarnation through the subtle bodies. This transmission of past physical, emotional and mental wounds constitute a large part of what Past Life Regression Therapy is meant to heal in the present lives.

To understand how past life wounds impact us in the present, we need to look at how trauma affects the psyche in the current life. A traumatic event is any overwhelming experience (physical, emotional, mental or spiritual) that has caused an inability in the psyche to integrate it fully and continue in the same manner as before the traumatic event was experienced. Thus trauma leaves a lasting and damaging impression that manifests as a combination of symptoms.